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Despite there being a healthy renaissance for butt play in recent years, backdoor entry is still a deal-breaker for many women — a no-way, no-how, entirely off-limits scenario. Still, more than a third of women For some women, like me, anal sex can be a mind-blowing addition to the bedroom. Anal sex has always been a welcome precursor to vaginal penetration and other below-the-belt play. The key, for me, is to have a patient partner — one whom I trust. Oh, and plenty of lube. For me to engage in anal sex, I need to be fully relaxed, lubed, and ready. Anne Hodder, ACS, a multi-certified sex and relationships educator, says a successful anal experience is most often the result of communication, relaxation, preparation, lubrication, and at least initially gentle stimulation.
Here are my top 25 tips on how to enjoy anal sex :. Lelo is a SheKnows sponsor, however, all products in this article were independently selected by our editors. Please note that if you purchase something by clicking on a link within this story, we may receive a small commission of the sale.
If someone has to convince you to do something, say no. There needs to be a solid level of trust.
For me, anal sex requires a higher level of trust than vaginal sex. There are these concepts called consent and communication. Accidental anal is not OK. Let go of any expectations. Instead of immediately focusing on full penetration, try to be as present as possible, and enjoy the buildup and arousal. Sometimes, it takes a few tries to make it happen. Your butt is beautiful. It may not be your most favorite body part, but the reality is that someone will be looking at it, they may be licking it, and if all goes as planned, penetrating it.
All butts are beautiful. I know, I know — this is easier said than done. Like you mean it deep breaths. A calm mind will hopefully set your ass at ease. Slow and low is the tempo. I cannot emphasize this enough. Go as slow as you need. Start small. Instead of going for the biggest dildo in your bedside arsenal, start with something small, like a single lubed finger, and work your way up. Communication is key. Your partner may be fan-freaking-tastic, but they are by no means a mind reader. It helps to have a conversation before you have butt sex for the first time.
Thick, silicone lubes tend to be longer-lasting and make for a smoother sailing backdoor situation.
The wetter, the better. Go shallow at first. I know, the impulse is to get in there — all the way in there — but take it easy, tiger, before you deep dive. The position can make all the difference. Many positions are anal sex-friendly, and some are better than others.
Doggy style, spooning, and the standard missionary position are best. Invest in a quality butt plug.
You can do this by yourself or with a partner. Avoid ass to mouth play ATM. If you are moving from anus to vagina, switch condoms, or be sure to clean your penis or strap-on thoroughly. Before you yuck this popular yum, please know that a lot of people find having their anus licked to be a very pleasurable experience. The anus is full of all sorts of ultra-sensitive nerve endings, especially around the entry, that can get the blood flowing to all the right places.
The prostate is a magical source of pleasure. For the penetrating penis, the anus is very tight, which can feel amazing. Steer clear of comparisons. It may be a messy event. A washable throw is your friend. It works perfectly on top of sheets, sofas, or any other sex-friendly surface, and can easily be thrown in the washer. Consent can be revoked or renegotiated at any time.
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